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We interrupt the evening’s homework for a public service announcement…..DO NOT wait to finish school until you have a family, a job, and innumerable responsibilities! Kids, stay in school while your parents are paying for everything, while you don’t have a teething infant, and while you don’t have a boss that’s more demanding than Jillian Michaels. College has been amazing and fun, but holy WOW is it a lot of work, especially on top of everything else right now.
I have learned not to regret the silly things I’ve done as a kid, but there are certainly times that I want to ask early 2000s Dottie what the heck she was thinking. I can’t seem to remember what possessed me to drop out of school and move across the country my junior year of college, but it sure seemed like the BEST IDEA EVER in my 20 year old mind. Of course, being a dance major in college also seemed like a great idea back then, despite the fact that it’s nearly impossible to get a job as a professional dancer, and it would be an absolutely useless degree for any other career path–talk about a huge waste of money!
I heard an interesting perspective on college a few weeks ago, and I’ve been pondering since then whether this individual is a genius or a complete idiot. I was listening to a podcast about homeschooling (because I am thinking of homeschooling my son) and there was actually an entire section on how evil it is that our country’s school systems are geared towards sending every student to college. At first that seemed crazy to me, but as I’ve thought about it I’m wondering if there isn’t some merit to what they were saying. When I was in high school, there was an alternative high school right around the corner where kids that didn’t want to go to college could go and be more prepared to enter certain professions (mechanics, IT, that sort of thing). Going to college wasn’t a certainty, you really had to get good grades to even have a chance. I also don’t remember there being nearly as many choices for majors as there are now. This might be a good thing — I’m certainly happy I have more languages I can study than would probably have been available ten or twenty years ago — but there are quite a few things I’ve seen in the news that make me wonder if this is part of the dumbing down of America’s universities. When I hear that there are classes devoted to Beyoncé, pornography, and the Klingon language, I’m starting to wonder why I pay more than $10k/year (just for classes, I don’t live on campus or have any kind of meal plan) for college–and that’s just a state university! The tuition at a private college would probably make me vomit… Sometimes the system just doesn’t make any sense to me–I could be completely fluent in another language, but without a bachelors degree, many places won’t hire me as an interpreter, even if I can prove my language skills. I’m wondering when we started to value a piece of paper over actual knowledge and competance.
I’m curious what everyone thinks about this. Has the course/major offerings of some colleges started to make 4 year degrees irrelevant in the marketplace? (Of course I’m not talking about a career requiring post secondary school like medicine, education, or law). Should we be encouraging our kids to think twice before they decide to go to college? Is the amount of debt they are racking up going to have an actual payoff when they try to enter the workforce, or are there many great careers that really just need knowledge rather than a degree? Should 4 year degrees be required for positions for which the relevant skills can be obtained without one (such as interpreting)? I think our education system is just as broken as our healthcare system, but I can’t even begin to imagine what we need to do as a country to fix it.
Of course, under the current system more than half the “good” jobs require a degree, so it’s back to homework for me!
Then factor in the fact that if you need student loans you get what… like a six month grace period before you’re expected to start making payments. I wonder how many graduates really get a high enough paying job right away that that isn’t super stressful.
I think college isn’t for everyone. There is something to be said for the vocational programs. I don’t think it’s a matter of intelligence, some people just aren’t the “academic type”. I think learning a trade so to speak is an option that ought to be made more available to high school students. Unfortunately, I think some people look down on that choice.
I wish before I had started college that I had really realized my degree choices wouldn’t really give me more options that I would have otherwise. I loved my course work, but honestly, unless you choose to pursue a graduate degree, psychology and anthropology are not necessary the best degree choices. A bachelor’s degree in either field doesn’t help much career-wise. Don’t get me wrong, it does make a difference, but only in a very limited way. So I became a psych tech at an inpatient psychiatric hospital. The job actually didn’t require any kind of college degree (though I’ve wondered during some particularly rough shifts if perhaps my coworkers could’ve benefited from further education, then again, is the practical on-the-job knowledge you acquire preferable anyway?).
And yet, if I did it over again I would probably do the same thing (although I might have been a little more careful with my finances), but mostly just because I enjoyed school.
I don’t think college should necessarily be pushed so hard. I think it makes a lot of people who aren’t in a position to go to college or those who aren’t the college-type feel bad and worthless when they don’t have a degree. I wonder sometimes if a degree often means much more socially than practically.
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